I've spent about half an hour in this community and I have some observations
- Echo chambers make brainworms worse. Sitting in a doomspiral only amplifies dysphoria.
- A successful transition is impossible without therapy. Most trans folk have a form of Complex-PTSD, because a childhood experience that was totally inauthentic directly causes trauma. https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/shattered
- Your brow bone is not that big. No you are not as clocky as you think you are. No, you are not a brick. If you're that self-conscious of it, go get bangs (don't do it yourself, they'll look like shit)
- If you want better boobs you gotta eat. Existing on 1500 calories (on a good day) will not make you look like you want to. Women naturally have more body fat than men. If you're under 15% body fat you're doing it wrong, gotta pump those numbers up.
- The best thing to do for brainworms is to find IRL community. Existing online only amplifies brainworms and online spaces quickly become echo chambers, as previously established. You will not find community at support groups. Go to Prides. Go to Queer events. Go to munches. Go to nerdy events.
Getting out of your front door is the toughest part. You got this girls.