AITAH in this friendship or am i being manipulated into thinking i am one

A little background story on how this all started me and this girl were friends and she recently asked me if she could become a thing with a guy that I used to have a thing with and and they started to become very serious and she catches feelings, but she started coming at me and was convinced that he still liked me and that he was in love with me and she was really heartbroken about it and mind you me and this girl have been completely fine for the past like a few months and so ever since she has been but her about the fact that she thinks that he still likes me which mind isn’t even my fault since I distanced myself from him ever since they became a thing and she’s acting like she wasn’t friends with me and went for the guy I used to be a thing with, but I was fine with it because I didn’t like him anymore even though it’s the weird but basically she’s been throwing a lot of dicks at me and coming at me for a lot of things and making me feel like I’m a really bad person which I feel like I I’m not really doing anything that should be making her mad to the extent that she is getting mad like for example one time I sent a grill to the group chat that we are all in and we had all booked a telly for a concert and at the time it was four of my friends which were basically like a they were all couples so two guys two girls so both couples and I was like the outlier and so I sent a real to the group chat and it was basically making a joke about how they were all getting freaky and they were all like basically being sexual while I was just there like as the single one as she messages me and gets really really mad and she’s like was basically trying to bad in front of the guys and how I was being so inconsiderate and disrespectful when and being so specific and that they would all know what I’m talking about when I really just sent it as a joke and I didn’t even know if they were doing anything sexual, which apparently they were so I don’t know why she was so mad about it but she basically said I was trying to make her look bad in front of the guys and that I didn’t need to air out her business like that when I never even specifically mention her in the comment I just sent me at the tally but anyways that was one thing and then there was this other time where my friend he got into a car crash and he’s not a serious guy like he jokes around a lot and after the car crash I asked him like I asked him how he was and how he was feeling and he said he wants sex and I was like I just laughed about. I started making jokes and knowing me I’m like the type of person to like always make jokes about stuff and like troll and so I was making jokes. I was being like no no way like after a car crash and you wanted sex and he starts getting mad at me. He’s like no it was a actual coping mechanism like and I was like oh I’m sorry. Like I didn’t realise you were being serious. I thought you were joking that’s why I was making jokes. I didn’t mean to be disrespectful. I didn’t know this was an actual problem that you had. I didn’t know you actually had a sex addiction and so this girl pipes in that she starts coming at me and she start saying I have an ego and then I’m being extremely disrespectful and rude just arguing with me and saying that I shouldn’t have said that when in reality I didn’t even know that he wasnt joking I thought I thought that he was just trolling me so obviously like I was just playing around with him but she starts saying all this bad stuff about me and I’m just thinking was I the asshole for not acknowledging that it could’ve been a real problem and am I the problem in this friendship or is she really just trying to make me look like a bad person because? because ever since she’s been crying to me and overthinking that her man still had feelings for me, she’s been throwing all these things on me and getting mad at me for stuff like this and so I’m just wondering if I’m really in the wrong and if I’m really doing all these wrong things and if I’m the asshole or if she’s trying to manipulate me into thinking I’m doing something wrong.