what would you tell your 20yo self? be brutal.

I've just turned 20 and I feel like I'm on the edge all the time. Time is running by and i don't seem to catch a hold of it. I feel like things are so out of my control and they are. My family is very misogynistic, literally every member. I want to move out this year and take my decisions. Please help your little sis out with some wisdom.