Christmas - so predictable

I tried so hard to make this Christmas good for me and the kids. Focused on them and on myself, did lots of creative making and cooking with them. The day ruined by my Q drinking over an 11 hour period and deciding that 9pm was a good time to try and force a relationship conversation on me. Apparently telling him quietly to please stop when he was having a go at my eldest was a “telling off”. I didn’t engage, he had a go at the kids, I went to bed. Woke up at half past midnight to discover that he’s downstairs drinking and watching a movie with my 11 year old. He can’t see what the problem is. Today acts like everything is fine…..