Tell me the truth

Have been dating a guy for 8 months. First valentines together and it seems like he hates going all out. He told me he’s always just done what the girl wanted for valentines. So he hasn’t really put any thought into valentines. He did text me happy valentines this morning but Is this normal man behavior to not really plan a romantic date and leave it to me or is he just not as into me as he should be and wasting my time