How do you deal with feeling of embarrassment ?

Idk if I’m easily embarrassed, but when i am it feels like hell, i hate that feeling especially because i just cant mask it like other feelings, and people notice it and they REALLY like to push that button, its supposed to be in a friendly funny way so i don’t feel like I’m allowed to get angry for that, it happens with people I’m close to but not close enough to, like colleagues, so it feels weird to set boundaries. The only thing that i can mask about it is how much it bothers me, and it just looks funny to them i guess? My real question is do you guys feel the same way about embarrassment? And do allistic people just don’t feel it the same way? Or do they just don’t see my suffering through that? Because as I experience it I would never make someone else feel that way on purpose especially when i know how it feels