self diagnosing

its so wild how people on other autism subreddits literally post they're autistic but can easily understand social cues, body language, etc and have never been bullied for being autistic, never been excluded, none of it?? like maybe...you might just not be autistic? no matter how well we mask people don't see us as normal. we seem off. the whole criteria itself for autism is deficits in understanding body language, social cues, etc. I'm so sick of it esp when they start making fun of special interests.