I've posted about this FP multiple times here so here's an update because i'm losing my freaking mind🥲
him(18) and i(19f) had dated but when we broke up we were still exclusive fwb and lowkey acted like a couple off and on for over a year. we live together and his friend lives with us also. i still have feelings for him honestly and people kept telling me i had to stop having sex with him if i want a shot at him liking me again. he's the main person i've done sexual stuff with and i'm the same for him so we're fairly comfortable with eachother sexually and are used to eachother. he hasn't done sexual stuff with anyone else since we met, i have with a few people when we took a break from fwb and honestly it was nowhere near as satisfying and didn't feel right. but anyways, we stopped being fwb about 2 and a half weeks ago and holy shit this is difficult... i keep thinking about doing that stuff with him, i try to imagine it with anyone else and it just doesn't feel the same. i'm used to his body, to him, i miss it. i've tried doing stuff to myself and it feels nice but it doesn't take away the craving. he's said multiple times that he misses it and i've agreed, he also said he still has no interest in doing that kinda stuff with other people. i'm also obviously doing stuff to work on myself also, it's not just cutting off sex. i seriously hope this works and that we're not both constantly craving it for nothing.
him(18) and i(19f) had dated but when we broke up we were still exclusive fwb and lowkey acted like a couple off and on for over a year. we live together and his friend lives with us also. i still have feelings for him honestly and people kept telling me i had to stop having sex with him if i want a shot at him liking me again. he's the main person i've done sexual stuff with and i'm the same for him so we're fairly comfortable with eachother sexually and are used to eachother. he hasn't done sexual stuff with anyone else since we met, i have with a few people when we took a break from fwb and honestly it was nowhere near as satisfying and didn't feel right. but anyways, we stopped being fwb about 2 and a half weeks ago and holy shit this is difficult... i keep thinking about doing that stuff with him, i try to imagine it with anyone else and it just doesn't feel the same. i'm used to his body, to him, i miss it. i've tried doing stuff to myself and it feels nice but it doesn't take away the craving. he's said multiple times that he misses it and i've agreed, he also said he still has no interest in doing that kinda stuff with other people. i'm also obviously doing stuff to work on myself also, it's not just cutting off sex. i seriously hope this works and that we're not both constantly craving it for nothing.