Is SpaceX is really better than BlueOrigin ? If yes, why ? if not why ?

I was always a SpaceX fan and never cared much about BlueOrigin until their New Glenn launch. But in light of these layoffs, and realizing that there are a lot of BlueOrigin (or ex-BlueOrigin) employees here, I have a question for you (or other BlueOrigin fans):

It seems to me that SpaceX is far ahead of everyone else, and I struggle to understand why. Why startup companies like Blue Origin seem to struggle to compete ?

Firstly, is that impression true, or did I miss something?

If that is true, then why is SpaceX better? Higher salaries? Better funding? A stronger engineering culture? Better management? Stronger political connections?

While I am not a big Musk hater like most of Reddit (nor a big lover either), I am still saddened that only SpaceX is making us dream. I don't understand why no other space companies, especially those funded by billionaires, can’t replicate their success.

I am sure there is plenty of highly talented people in BlueOrigin, is there something holding you back ?