Do you talk to your brother who treated you like shit growing up?

For those who experienced physical or emotional abuse from their older brothers growing up, how is your relationship now? As adults we have an "ok" relationship and I've tried to ignore everything prior while secretly holding onto resentment. Just recently he's really disappointed me—not through abuse, but through selfish acts that have only compounded my existing feelings. Now, my rage is spilling over, and it’s becoming harder to ignore.

I’m curious to hear about your experiences. Thank you.