Does anyone else have no memory of their parents waking them up gently?

All I remember is them yelling my name every morning from a distance, never touching me like I was radioactive or something.

I used to think that’s just how people woke each other up. So whenever my college roommate asked me to wake them up, I would yell at them just like my parents did.

But whenever I asked my roommate to wake me up, they would gently shake me and call my name in a soft tone. I never knew being woken up gently could feel this good.