Am I thinking wrong?

I'd say consider dating "less serious". I mean when it comes to me I don't even try. Hear me out, yea? He provides when the time is right. When do you know the time is right? For that you'll have to seek Him. Maintaining a healthy relationship with God gives you a sense of mind. It's written in Matthew 6 He provides for the birds who neither sow nor reap. Aren't you more than those? Doesn't he know that you need a life partner? Did Issac date? He knew Rebeca from the beginning? They hung out together? No! So.. just live your life and stray not into the world and He'll do the rest. I honestly don't like TRAIL RUNS like that is how I find dating sometimes. If you get it, you get it. Am I wrong?

One of my friends said that it is weird I think that way and that I should actually try dating. Feel free to educate me if I am wrong. Thank you :)