I left

I (M28) left my wife (29F), just for a few days while I get my head on straight. I don't even feel like going to work because of how shitty last night and today was but I don't have enough time to call out..besides that I left because I feel like I'm done. I'm tired of taking the high road and having to constantly "compromise" with her about everything. From our relationships, to ppl I talk to, to jobs. I always end up with the short end of the stick.

2 year Dead Bedroom didn't stop till I threatened divorce (she didn't wanna do counseling at the time)

Any coworkers I became friends with I was scrutinized, had to show her my phone whenever she deemed fit.

GOOD paying Jobs I wanted to take but couldn't because they were Overnight and she wanted me home. Her not wanting me to stay, to do OT because she had a bad day and expects me to drop everything to be with her.

That was the final straw. 11 fuckin years of pure exhaustion...id try to talk about things, I'd tried to get the counseling but now that I LEAVE you wanna do counseling?! Fuck that shit.

Ughh...I just feel like a super old wash rag...trying to hold on by the last few threads and I don't think I wanna do this anymore.