Who was right? Pam or Jim?

The whole storyline of Jim/pam having issues because he was absent with athlead whilst she was alone with the kids, who do you think was more validated in the way they felt?

I understand Jim wanted to do something better to provide for his family (personally I think he just enjoyed it for himself more than anything) but I also totally understand why Pam felt the way she did. I was always pro Pam in this situation and he should have taken his wife’s choice and feelings as priority in the first place. It’s a lot to expect of your wife who wasn’t keen on the decision in the first place to be alone with two young kids and not know when she would return to a normal life with her family.