Venu3 Silver or black for female?

The white strap that goes with the silver looks so dingy and dirty… I also wear gold almost daily so I feel like the silver is odd with that. BUT is the all black too manly? Or is it okay on a female? I prefer the gold of the 3s, but it is way too small looking on my wrist size. The 3, 45mm seems to be a better size.