This is so annoying!
When discussing pretty much anything at least a little related to gay/trans people with my family (I'm closeted and this entire country is homophobic and transphobic as hell) I have to pretend I think gay/trans people are abnormal and strange because otherwise they start lecturing me about "how bad gay/trans people are". It's so annoying and I hate doing it, but I don't have a choice! 😞