What makes you spend your time here? No judgement, genuinely curious

Hey! I realized this sub really catches my attention and I’ve spent a lot of time here since I found it a few days ago.

The funny thing is that I have never cared about this couple. I am from a far away non English speaking country, I was never interested in Bieber and if I was asked about them just a week ago, I would probably be able to say 2-3 facts at best (like… eeeeh… he is a singer and is married to Heiley and eeeehh he was popular and she has a make up company).

Now I feel like I’m an expert, I read the deepdive into this trio’s relationship, I’ve learned so many rumours and opinions and it is SO captivating!

But why lol

Usually people say that the ones who spend their time gossiping, have unhappy unfulfilled lives and use it as a way to feel better.

I think that I use this couple more like a material for psychology investigation, because they have been so open and it is so easy to follow everything they did and thought either from their own posts or from some pap’s pictures.

The lessons that I’ve learned thanks to them are these so far:

  1. Keep your thoughts to yourself, keep your relationships to yourself

  2. Don’t be an attention whore, people will feel it

  3. Don’t marry a person you don’t genuinely love (too late! Already made this mistake and divirced haha)

  4. Don’t have a baby with a person you don’t love (too late #2)

  5. Don’t try to fit in where you don’t belong. Be in your circle. Find your own people. Maybe they are not famous and rich, but you can be equal with them and create real connections.

  6. No matter how hard you try; there will be people who think you’re cringe. So maybe don’t try so hard and chill and be yourself hehe

  7. No matter how horrible you fuck up, there will be people who like you.

  8. Religion can help in short term to make your life less a mess and stop being a horrible person. I had this experience, too. I felt like I was falling into the void of sin, so I became Christian, married a person I didn’t love and gave birth to a child. Well… I lost myself basically and was miserable af. It is better to find another way to escape your hell, therapy worked miracles for me.

Probably I have much more to tell, but got tired at this point.

Why do you choose to spend your valuable time here? Any lessons you get? Or is it just fun?