Gandupama and her unnecessary objection to Mahi

I understand Mahi was madly in love with Prem, but that's only because all Mahi wanted was love.....and she was clearly being denied that her whole life. From Vanraj, from Kavya, from the shahs and even Anupamaa. This Grinchupama rlly was just crying over that grinch Rahi who always misunderstands Anupama and gets back to liking her its an endless cycle.....and Mahi was the one there for Anupamaa when Ragi left again, which was normal as she just kept coming back and leaving..... Mahi was there for Anupamaa and cared for her like Samar did. All of a sudden Ragi comes back, gets all the pyaar and attention just for coming back and Mahi gets sidelined? It's very much unfair to Mahi, and if anyone In that house genuinely loved her, then they would have been there for her when Shitupama wasn't, lekin nahi. This just proves why Mahi grasped onto the need for attention and love. However If Anupamaa truly considered Mahi to be her daughter then she wouldn't have told Mahi "Aap meri beti ki jagah uski zindagi mein kabhi nahi le sakti ho!" Itni zor se kaha na? Like pehli, lady, Ragi is not your "beti" . She is the ungrateful sadakchaap that just keeps coming back into your life, misunderstands you and leaves again. She comes and goes idk why Gandupama is so emotional regarding this Ragi. Now whole Anupamaa episodes are based on Ragi only- Ragi's wedding, Ragi's farewell, etc. Tbh if Kavya hadn't left, Mahi would not be like this- desperate for attention at all.