Advice

So ...I don't know what to do ....there is this guy whom I know for almost two years . In the beginning, I totally had no interest in him . He asked me to be friends. I said no since it was a little strange for me , I didn't know him well at that time . And my friend ( by whom reference he met me) she also mentioned him not in a good reputation.

Later , he used to text me , he was nice . He had good humour and was really funny . I was very down in those days . So , talking to him was nice . we were like good friends. But , after a year , he started behaving really strange . He started flirting. And behaving as if he is in love with me . I tried to stay away . But I couldn't. I started liking him as well.

But after like 6 months of this, he completely changed . I asked him that what happened , he said as He is not a brilliant student and there are all those issues . He is afraid about his admissions and stuff so he is upset . And than slowly,things became really different, we fought all the time . He started saying me that I wm overthinking. When I wanted to conversate , he said mujse gily na kro , muje gily ni pasand . And everything. That time , it was actually really bad , and it affected my mental health . He treated me really bad . I cried even a lot of times.

After trying to make things better for like two months , nothing changed. We kept fighting and I felt as if I were begging in front of someone. So , it hurted me , but I decided to leave . I removed him from all my social media accounts and then I didn't even opened and replied to a single text or reel he sent me. I went on a trip and I kept overthinking all that time . He used to text me , I didn't even opened , but after like a week , he sent me ling paragraphs that this this was happening in his life and stuff and he is sorry about it . I said okay to him . He was literally like , this will never happen again, I will never treat you like that again . I said okay. And after that all was good

I started loving him. He really changed . He changed himself to a the type of guys I liked . I could see making him efforts from a long time . If I as like more than 2 years . Anyway . We both went into a commitment. But , like a month later , he said me that this is not the right time , he cares for me and doesn't want to give me false hopes . Like he ended everything but said me k me Ider hi hu , me Kahi ni jaa raha , tumhary pas hi Hun , lakin abhi ye sahe time ni hai , we should wait for the right time , me Chahta Hun k ye love commitment type saari baatain sahe time any py Hon bus( he was never into any commitment or relationship in his life before that ). He said k me tumhy hurt ni krna chahta so I don't want any relationship, relationships end but friendships never end, I just said ok that's fine .

Then , after that , nothing changed , he is still the same , the same good behavior. But I don't know what's going on ? Once I asked him k tumhy kabhi muhabbat hui b thi mujse ? ( I asked him Not in a serious mood , but very randomly , like laughing and talking about random stuff ) he said , me Evi dramy lagaon agy sy , Sach Kaho to muje nai lagta k muje muhabbat ho kabhi Zindagi me kisi sy jis trha ka me Hun . Or baki aisi koi baat ni hai that I kept you for time pass or something. You are my goood friend and I respect you. You are a very nice girl and etc ....

now he makes time for me ....talks to me and everything. Like everything is like fine .but I don't know where will it go ? ( He has a couple of other female friends as well and I am a girl who has only him as a guy in my life ) he gave me gift on my birthday and tells me that I am different for him since he is a kind of guy who cannot even spend a single rupee on any girl . ( He actually never spent). I don't know . But I actually love him . I have never been into any guy ever. His behavior with me is really good. Acc to him, he is there for me . He just never want to be in a relationship and is like jab b Hogi shadi hi Hogi . It's been a year that he is on good terms with me