Question about Praise Kink and Degradation Kink.

Hello, so I (33F) have a question that I can't seem to find through Google searches.

For a little context, me and my girlfriend (31F) recently started being physically intimate. All of my sexual experiences in the past were very vanilla, no exploration whatsoever. So even though I'm in my 30's I still don't really know what I like and what truly gets me off. My girlfriend as had a very similar experiences in the past. This is also my first lesbian relationship. So our intimacy has been slow and intentionally focused on figuring out things.

This past weekend when we were exploring I was having a really hard time getting off. I asked my gf to tell me that I wasn't doing a good job and that I didn't deserve to get off. It didn't really work for me at all. But then she switched to praising me but in like a pretty patronizing way. Like telling me "good job princess" and "wow, you're working really hard aren't you?" And like I got off really quickly after that. So it seems like I have a bit of both a praise kink and degradation kink? I don't think I'd want completely derogatory things told or done to me though and I don't think genuine praises would work either. And maybe this would just be classified as a Good Girl Kink. But I just can't find any information online about this so I can learn more and ask my girlfriend for specific things. I know that through more exploration we will figure it out eventually, but has anyone else experienced this? Does anyone know what this link would be called?