how often do you talk to your MIL?

im genuinely wondering the range of what’s “normal” for y’all. i have been with my fiance for 5 years, have seen my MIL in person maybe 9 times ever, and i never talk with her. we send a “happy birthday” text or something, but never any actual conversation. i know now that she really didn’t like me when my fiance and i started dating haha.

wish i had a better relationship with her but 🤷🏻‍♀️ guess it’s how it goes. it can always improve.