Is anyone’s father this way?

For context I’m Pakistani Canadian and come from a poorer background. My dad constantly tells my family to save money my parents make us feel guilty for spending money however every time his relative asks for money even tho they don’t need it he sends thousands of dollars right away. His mother and brothers are obviously lying about their situation he falls for it so easily we live in such a small home with not enough room for my big family he can’t move us out of here and give us a better life but can constantly send the money away. As the oldest daughter who works really hard in college it makes my efforts feel pointless even my mom has complained about it he’s starting to realize it a bit but continues to give all his money away