I’m in a marriage that feels like dating

I got religiously married about 8 months ago but haven’t moved in together yet. It’s an arranged marriage where he came with his family to propose after recently graduating but didn’t have a job. I didn’t mind since I thought he’d have a savings and will probably find a job soon since he came to propose (everything was planned). 8 months later, he doesn’t have a job, a car, any savings, and does not provide for me in any way. He stays home all day and doesn’t have outside hobbies or even friends to go out with although he’s in his mid twenties.

We also haven’t started wedding planning or any plans that hint we’re going to move in together.

I expressed to him how I don’t feel safe in the relationship and it bothers me to be in a relationship without a plan. He says he’s applying for jobs and doing what he can but I don’t see ANY progress. He also did not tell me that he’s not ready to provide when he first proposed and hinted that he has family wealth. So I feel that I’ve been fooled into the relationship.

My dad has told him that if doesn’t show progress then we have to break up! So we went browsing for wedding halls and was finaly relieved that we’re “planning”. However he hasn’t booked an appointment and he hasn’t brought up any planning any more!

I’m starting to consider leaving but it’s not easy! I don’t know what to do, please advise me!