Are we crazy?

Are we crazy for not having another one x months pp? I have a friend she's almost a month pp and she just asked me for a pregnancy test. Which obviously i haven't had any in 2 years now. She's like why didn't you plan another as soon as your soon was a month old. I was like because I didn't want my husband's dick near my vagina for 7 months because sex was painful. I just wonder how these women are so "lucky" to have a quick turnaround time, or they are drinking the i want my kids to be close in age Kool aid