[29M] Very weird experience on matrimony. Do these girls and their parents live on la-la land?
So, back story a bit, I had created an account on shaadi 3 weeks back where I got rejected by many in without visiting my profile as there was no pic. So, I decided to deactivate it.
Recently 2 days back I decided to create a new account with mentioning details about me, what I do , a bit about family and what I need in my partner. I started getting good number views and decent number of interests though many keep visiting and shortlisting (as I keep getting notified for that) but they dont accept or sometimes send me interst even though they keep visiting 5 times in a day. weird? huh? Nope, not at all as compared to what just happened,
Now the story time- 3 people have directly viewed my contact number without even sending me interest. Somehow I got a call. Could not attend. so I called back in a few minutes and it went unanswered, Again got a call but missed as I was not there to pick . Then I called and went unaswered. It was happening like a cycle for couple of times.
Again I get call from the same number and this time I attend it. Voice didnt sound like old.
Him- Hello, who is this?
Me- You called my other number couple of times.
Him-- What's your name?
Me- I am #$$%%$$$
Him- Oh, yes, I called. I got the number from matrimony. Share your father's number .. I want to talk. (all in 1 sec.. he was very fast)
Me- You can tell me. It's a self managed. I am handling it. What's the name of the candidate. (I asked gently)
Him- Her name is %%%. We have not shared many details. we directly call and see if we are interested then I will share pics and details. You are a kid. What I will discuss with you?
Me- Okay, I will text you my father's number. But what you do?
Him- I am working as a General Manager at ONGC.
Me- what does she do?
Him- She is in Bangalore...working there.. give me your father's number..
Me- See, you have to give me some details at least. I am not gonna get married just because at my parents wish. That's why I create this account.
Him- Okay, then I will call you.
Me-- Okay, cool. Hangs up!!
Let me tell you this. I dont know why this fellow even called me. I have given complete honest info. This fellow didnt even tell the girl's name fully. On matrimony, only first name is mentioned without surname. Here on call he was even quoting half of the first name sounding it like a nick name. Pic is hidden. You can only see by requesting it to get access to view. No mention of many of the details for family. I get it GM of ONGC would be getting around 60-70lpa fixed maybe more? Could be. But how could someone think he can insult and expect others to follow. Not sure, if he is thinking everyone is at ONGC and his subordinates. They should simple follow elitematrimony maybe to reach out to rich folks. I have been living outside home for Past 15 years (since my 10th). What makes these people think I will just yes daddy yes daddy to everything. :P :P.
This is surely a RedFlag if they randomly view contact number. How come they expect a guy will marry his daughter if they are behaving like this.
Note- I am very middle-class guy. I have no aspirations of getting married to some daddy's sweet summer child.
Edit- This entire Conversation happened in 57 seconds. Imagine how fast was he