Personal desires of both genders

Males have intrinsic desire to stare at beauty & Females have intrinsic desire to look beautiful.

Males are asked by Allah to lower their gaze while females are asked to wear veil or cover themsleves competely with loose clothes.

But here in pakistani society, both are not ready to do so while expect/force the other gender to follow this rule like men will say that if women cover themsleves, we will see it and females/girls say thay if men were trained properly by their family and lower their gaze then they will be secured, it does not matter what she wears, man should not misbehave and should lower their gaze and give them open space to do whatever she wants or wears..

My question is, 1) if both of us are agreed to do so then what is the future of females and males here in pakistan ?

2) And what will pakistan be like in future in terms of relationships ??

For the context, men these days due to late marriages are not able to follow islam in regard of sexual desires and lower the gaze while females due to feminism culture and past oppression are not ready to wear veil or burka..