Is Owning a House Really That Important?

I've been actively searching for a life partner for the past 5-6 months, having conversations with multiple women along the way. Everything seems to go well at first—my education, job, personality, and conversation skills all check their boxes. Some even say, "Where were you all this time?" But the moment I mention that I don’t own a house yet, the entire vibe shifts. Suddenly, the interest fades, and the enthusiasm disappears.

Is not homeownership really such a dealbreaker that it outweighs everything else? I completely respect personal preferences—everyone has the right to seek what they believe is best for them. But let’s not be hypocritical about it. If financial stability is the only priority, then just say so and pursue wealth alone. Expecting one person to be financially well-established, highly educated, loyal, family-oriented, and emotionally supportive all at once is unrealistic, especially when we’re talking about a guy in his mid-20s.

Our parents spent their entire lives building financial security—yet somehow, a 26-27-year-old is expected to have it all figured out already? Is there no concept of growing together anymore?

Just putting my thoughts out there. Curious to hear different perspectives.