This Sub is Our Space
People like to talk about 'safe spaces' right? I just want to make it clear that this sub is our space. It's a space for expats to discuss topics that we deem important, and yes that includes complaining about the Philippines from time to time.
We're allowed to do that and if someone doesn't like it they're free to leave and mute it so it no longer appears in their feed. If I went into r/Philippines and tried to tell them what they should or shouldn't post I'd be called a 'colonizer', 'arrogant American' etc etc. I specifically started this sub because I didn't feel that expats had a voice in r/Philippines. Anytime an expat told the truth how they felt they were downvoted into oblivion and attacked by sycophantic expats who think attacking their fellow expats endeared them to the locals.
Expats often feel that the system here is unfair to them, and this frustration leads to complaints. For example:
- Landlords refusing to return deposits, even when there’s no damage to the unit.
- Expats receiving tickets for reckless driving while they’re stopped at a red light.
- Filipinos intentionally irritate foreigners, then record their reactions to post as rage bait on Facebook.
- Constantly being overcharged.
What makes it worse is the usual response: “Just let it go,” “Get over it,” or the worst of all “If you don’t like it, leave!” This is why expats need a space where they can vent their frustrations.
Another thing I'd like to point out is that we are not guests. Guests don't pay taxes, guests don't pay rent, and guests don't buy property in their wife's name. LOL! A more accurate word would be 'tenant'. Yes, this is your country but we have a right to be here because we live here and we pay rent (a lot actually).
Filipinos are welcome in this sub, and we value your insights—they often give us a better understanding of local culture and customs. But I’ll be honest: you might come across posts or comments here that rub you the wrong way, and if that’s not for you, that’s okay too.