Do unique Romantasy books even exist. I'm tired of digging.

I'm so over it. I'm so over the lack of communication between characters, the immaturity, the dark daddy and traumatized girl who can't work through their shit until they magically do. Like where is the character development? I feel like the same shit happens over and over. I started with ACOTAR and liked it. I know it has its problems, but at least it felt original. Are there ANY books you can recommend that aren't copy and paste plots. I really liked Throne of the Fallen, Atonement of the Spine Cleaver, and Quicksilver. Get me out of this slump :(