Ann Arbor or Philly Suburbs

My husband and I are in the very early stages of deciding where to move next.

I grew up along the main line, but I haven't lived there in over 10 years and don't necessarily want to live where I grew up. My husband grew up in middle of nowhere, MI. So Ann Arbor (or near Ann Arbor) is the closest we're willing to move near his family.

Family friendly, ideally have a bit of land (1+ acre), lots of food and entertainment options. We want an ideal mix of rural and urban without being too cookie cutter suburban.

Suggestions on towns/neighborhoods welcomed too.