Thinking of Leaving Santa Barbara

My husband and I have been living in Santa Barbara for several years - since we started college - and we both work full-time here now. We know how special this place is, and the thought of leaving honestly makes me sad. We’re fully aware that nowhere else will truly compare, but the cost of living is making it hard to see a long-term future here. We’d love to buy a house and start a family at some point in the next few years, but realistically, that doesn’t seem possible if we stay.

We’re open to both the East and West Coast, ideally within an hour of the ocean. We’re hoping to find a cute town or city with a charming downtown area and a sense of community. We’re not necessarily struggling financially, but e.g. buying a home here in the near future just isn’t realistic for us.

Has anyone made a similar move or has a place in mind that offers a bit of SB’s charm? I am really grateful for any suggestions!