Need Advice on Shrinking Lobes

Basically the title. My right ear specifically shrinks SUPER fast. I mean if I go 24 hours without anything in it's popping back in, not sliding. I tried naked training my lobes, and after 2 weeks I couldn't wear my double flare stone plugs, which are my favorite. I had to switch to my metal tunnels and single flare pugs, wearing them 24/7, until it stretched back out enough to pop one in. Which still took a bit of force that was probably not acceptable... I'm tired of stressing about it. I've been at 00g for a year now, maybe a little longer. This is specifically more a right ear issue than a left ear issue. Left ear doesn't shrink as fast. Anyways, help and advice is appreciated!