Has anyone noticed the uptick in posts regarding students holding grudges against teachers who yelled at them or even raised their voice at them?

I’m a long term sub but basically do get treated as a teacher since I am the teacher of the record for my students. I know we have all noticed the students are a lot more open with their mental health problems and how that is one thing we try to tackle with our teaching especially with all the resources schools can provide to students. And how a lot of students as a result are lacking in accountability and placing all the blame on their mental health knowing that is one way to displace the blame on them.

I am 23 years old, which is still very young despite what my middle schoolers like to think. I’m very well aware of all the trends especially on TikTok. But TikTok seems to confuse me for a student considering a post I saw which I assume they thought I would like/agree with. I have been seeing this type of post all over social media but it basically says that these kids will hold a grudge and hate a teacher if they deem the teacher raising their voice at them so not even full on yelling. And that they will no longer participate in class or even acknowledge the teacher. They will make sure the teacher knows they “messed up”. I even saw several commenters say that the teachers even apologized for their behavior and they still refuse to let go of the grudge. Now I know not everyone has to forgive everything but I did bring up a point how some point in life they will need to let go of the pettiness because it is unreasonable. I got attacked because they’re just teens and teens should not be more mature than adults. Which I can understand but what I was trying to say that they cannot have these immaturities in college or at the work place and that it does need to be worked on especially if someone was trying to make it right with them. I know a lot of this was trauma response but reading these comments, I see the student commenters not care for their teacher’s feelings or trauma as well and refuse to acknowledge that they do not need to be retaught expectations and hold onto the belief that they are always being victimized.