Private this sub when it reaches like 5k or starts getting too much attention
See what happened to r/lgb, r/LesbiansGaysBisexual (wasn't even allowed to take off) and other subreddits that refused to cater to youknowhat.
If this community gets axed, the only alternative would be ovarit which 1. isn't lesbian-centric 2. is too much of an anti space that it ends up being bitter and draining.
Maybe have a backup plan because Reddit is far too unreliable to establish a long-lasting community without being hijacked.