Gay bars are good in theory but…

Mini rant ahead: All the gay bars near me are full of gay men, straight women and maybe 1 or 2 bisexuals. When I first started going to gay clubs/bars I was so excited! But it seems that 99% of the women there are looking for a gay best friend or a place without creepy men. Which is obviously 100% fine but they get offended/disgusted that lesbians are at the gay bar. I was lining up for the (all gendered) bathroom and was talking to a gay man and the women in front of us spotted him and wanted to be besties so they turned to each other, pointed at me and said “ew a dyke, she probably wants to fuck us”, then basically pulled this man aside and started talking to him. I honestly just wish there were bars near me just for sapphics. If anyone knows where all the lesbains are at please let me know🙏. Baby gay here tryna find their people