Anyone here na Only child na wala ring mga pinsan

Problem/Goal: Conflicted kaming mag-asawa na sundan ang only child namin. I just want to know from similar people dito na walang kapatid at walang pinsan, How are you? Sobrang lungkot ba? If yes, how do you cope? How are you now as an adult? Do you have any advice for me na mom ng only child?

Context: We have a daughter , 4 yrs old ngayon. I am hesitant bigyan sya ng kapatid for several reasons, but narealize ko na wala pala syang pinsan manlang.. Wala syang kasangga kapag nawala kami ng daddy nya.

Walang kasiguraduhan na makakaclose nya pinsan nya in the future kung sakaling biglang magkaaroon, kaya naisip ko na mas mapapanatag ako kung may kapatid sana sya. At nagrerequest talaga sya ng baby sister :')

Previous attempts: Wala pa namang attempt pa sa paggawa ng bata since naka IUD ako. It's super effective so far 😅

All your responses will be appreciated! 🙏