Anyone else's strong sense of justice get in the way of relationships?

I get upset at people for what are deemed unimportant by others but mean a lot to me. For example, if you tell me you use chat gpt I don't want to talk to you anymore because all I can think about is how you're casually wasting olympic pool amounts of water just to do your homework. And if we have different political opinions all I can think about is you're supporting the guy who is defunding cancer research. It really prevents me from making friends because I struggle to look past things that maybe don't matter to everyone else.