I’m being “bullied” at work.

Context: I work with an all black (including myself) staff that’s mostly a tight knit crew and they all “seem” to like each other. I’m unsure because there’s a lot of bickering back and forth between a few of them and it genuinely feels hostile sometimes as someone who’s new to the staff. I’m new to the location as an Assistant Manager and I’m 24 for a couple more months.

I don’t even know where to start. But here are some of the examples that I can think of:

-They make fun of my speech patterns. They say everything except outright saying “You talk white” (eye roll). “Why do you talk like that?” “Are you from here?”

-Got told they were “taking away my “”black card”” because I didn’t know about some store on the East side. “Oh you grew up around here huh? That’s why you don’t know about (store name)”

-I wear an Afro with a little pink patch in the front and was asked by an older coworker (male). “X let me put cornrows in your hair” I took this as a micro aggression because A) I think tf not. (Nothing against cornrow wearing ladies but it’s not for me). B) I thought we were out of the age of telling black women what to do with their hair.

-Same older male coworker will buy everyone food on staff but me and the one time I got asked what I wanted, he tried to make me pay for it, but no one else was asked to pay for their order.

-One staff member refuses to listen or look at me when I talk to her but she’s 17 so eh a minor not listening and having attitude is normal but damn no common decency or respect is crazy.

-I don’t get helped like I see them do for each other. Ex: long line at the register, they’d hop on if a seasoned staff member were alone but when it’s me dealing with a long line I just have to run two registers.

-About the bickering my manager doesn’t do anything to mitigate the behavior, and most of the time she’s starting or participating in said behavior. They also talk badly about each other when said person isn’t there. I don’t like constantly hearing people argue, it’s just unprofessional and creates tension.

There’s more but I don’t want this to go on forever. I mostly keep to myself and just focus on my work but the environment they’ve created is not comfortable for me. They’re giving the weird high school vibe of “you’re not black enough to sit with us” cringe. I’m just here to make money and go home. I don’t understand why I get picked on so much.

Have any of you ladies experienced this before and what advice who you have for this situation?

I’ve already told my DS that I want to transfer stores and they’re trying to find options but no one in the area needs an A1 right now.