Any suggestions for good male authors that aren’t “bro”?

Update: I’ve gotten a huge response from the community in such a short time. So many options to explore. Thank you to everyone who chimed in. Though a bit overwhelming, it’s greatly appreciated. No need to add more unless you just have to. 😊 Cheers!

I find I generally enjoy female authors’ books so much more. They tend to be more thoughtful, interesting, and vulnerable in their writing, plots, and character development. I so often find male authors to write stories and characters that are coarse and machismo, flaunting toughness or rowdiness and centering a certain kind of hubris.

Best books I’ve read this year: So far from God; Tomb Sweeping, How the Garcia Sisters Lost Their Accents, The Crane Wife. I seem to enjoy essay memoirs and fiction that tells a good story. I don’t care much for fantasy or science fiction or sprawling familial / generational epics. Mysteries are ok. A little bit of magical realism is ok, but not as a main driver.

I’m reading Monstrilio right now by a male author which I’m enjoying.

Thoughts?