Should I dump the guy?
I (F26) have been seeing this guy (M26) for two months and before we started seeing each other he had asked me lots of times and really tried to get me to say yes which I eventually did.
We drank a couple of glasses of wine two times and then I chickened out and wrote him a message saying that I didn’t feel the connection and we shouldn’t see each other again. He called me and convinced me to try again.
We tried again and have seen each other once a week since.
We are having sx but I do not have the feelings for him for me to go down on him, (which he really wants for me to do), since this is the most intimate thing sxually for me. Last week during our intimate moment he said “try and take it in our mouth” and “you can might give it a kiss” and I stopped what I was doing immediately and said that he knows how I feel about it and he shouldn’t say that, to which he didn’t really reply and just smiled a bit. A few hours later we were watching a movie and cuddling and suddenly he tried to push me head down “as a joke”.
I am starting to feel he doesn’t respect my boundaries and are considering stopping things.
N.b. I asked him about his intentions a few days ago and he responded “I don’t really know, I guess just to get to know you better as I think this is exciting but I am not ready for a relationship right now and only time will tell whether I will be ready”
What should I do?