What are some Mormon practices you considered normal, until a nevermo told you it was strange?

I’ll go first:

  • Paying for missions (And using the phrase “called to serve”. Why would god made someone pay if they were called to serve?)

  • You’re assigned a ward based on where you live. (My nevermo spouse couldn’t believe you can’t just go somewhere else. He asked - What if you don’t like the people? Or the “pastor”? 😀

- Attendance roll (You go to church for yourself. Why would anyone need to track it?)