Did you make any real connections in church?

Seems to me the vast majority of people from my church would not even say hi when i would bump into them randomly somewhere. Not sure what's going on but I assume we have very shallow relationship as If i almost didn't exist as a person to them outside of church hours. This and the constant advice on what I need to do in my life to improve it, is what lead me onto a path of leaving churches for good.

I have noticed others talking more deeply and even tho pretty much everyone knew my number and where I live, never has anyone reached out randomly, I was always the first one to intitated until I eventually gave up. This is also a similar phenomenon in every church Ive been to so far. The first question is usually" What do u do?" and then they disappear if you mention a lower status job. I seem to go to church with Mammon worshippers.

Anyways I got tired of all this and have noticed in all my years of going to church is that I haven't made a single REAL friend. Not sure if Its just my monetary status or just the fact that I am ugly physically is what rubs people off but I haven't seen the lack of funds slow down others.

What was it like for you? What job/career do you have? Are you good looking?