Ex-Muslim dating success stories??

Hi all! I’m 27F ex-Muslim Pakistani-American and out of the closet with my parents. However, I’m still very cultural and hold a lot of the values I grew up. I want an easier life for me, my partner and my family than would be possible if I married outside of the culture/religion. My ideal partner would be similarly non-religious but from a South Asian, Arab or otherwise Muslim background— so we can just be Muslims be name together 😌

The issue is it feels as though my dating pool is nonexistent, as cultural Pakistani men tend to be religious, and the ones that aren’t religious are either not open about it or don’t feel the need to marry within the culture.

As a woman I’m also a bit more stuck with the whole “nikkah is not valid if the man isn’t Muslim” issue 😅 My parents have made it clear that that’s a concern for them— and I don’t want them to suffer community ridicule, nor do I want to ask someone to convert for appearances.

Is there anyone else in a similar situation that managed to find their person? How did you meet? Any advice?