How to navigate the "detachable dick" logistics if I want to pick someone up at a bar or something?
So weird to write this, but I've never been with someone as a man, so to speak. I've had a few instances of pegging my straight cis male ex and a couple lesbian encounters when I was still trying to be a woman, but never a situation where I stood up for what I wanted and said "yeah, hey, my female genitalia are off limits, my dick is silicone, now let's proceed."
I haven't been sexually active in years and have only ever been with two people (one cis man, one cis woman), but I'm slowly healing emotionally to the point where I want to try again. But I cannot figure out how to handle the logistics of needing to bring my own dick. 😆 I actually don't have one yet and need to get one, but want to know how you guys have handled this....
Do you just, like... go out with a man purse and keep your dick inside in case you get lucky at a bar/club/on a date? I don't know yet if I'm the kind of guy who will be down for casual spontaneous hookups (I haven't had the chance to find out in the past), but I want the option on the table, you know?
So yeah, any advice or anecdotes about what's worked for you would be great.