Not beaing TfT

Hi. Am not TfT, and I probably never will be. But I have gotten a lot of back- klach form my local community. Is it wird that am not TfT? I am on the aro spectrum, but still people give me shit for saying taht I don't wanna be in a TfT relationship. I have no problem whit penetrative sex, but ather then that am not really in to it.