Unpopular opinion: DM’s freeze response saved her life.

As a millennial managing Gen Z, my perspective has completely changed—this isn’t a generational war. Everything people find frustrating about Gen Z is largely, in my opinion, society’s fault.

DM freezing in that moment saved her life. We can debate the hours between the event and the 911 call, but we’re talking about a traumatized young person from a generation that struggles with authority, decision-making, and confrontation—especially after losing key social and developmental years in high school due to Covid.

That freeze response likely kept her alive, unlike the other roommates who tragically lost their lives. I’ve always suspected Kaylee and Maddie weren’t together when the attack happened. After their calls to the bf and probably some snuggling, Kaylee likely returned to her room with Murphy. If Maddie was the target, the "there's someone here" could have been Kaylee crossing back to Maddie’s room and walking in on the attack. Then she likely moved instinctively to help, not realizing the danger.

Then, feisty Xana, hearing something, stepped out into the living room—leading to the massacre in her bedroom.

Two girls responded with Fight (maybe flight) and lost their lives. DM froze and survived. I hope she finds peace, knowing so many are thinking of her. I see my Gen Z employees in her—kids who missed critical years of socialization and may not react as older generations would, but who have such big, pure hearts. My soul hurts for her.