We’re fighting the wrong battles

As someone who has consistently supported the Hindu community, I've come to realize that the current situation is overwhelming. The escalating tensions between Hindus and Muslims in India are not only divisive but will ultimately harm us all. While I have always stood by my beliefs and culture, I can't ignore the fact that the recent extremism is perilous. It is regressive and creates a divide that serves no one.

Let me recount an incident from today. I visited a familiar electronics store where the shopkeeper had just gotten married, and I was there to finalize some business. Accompanied by a friend, he congratulated the shopkeeper with "Shaadi Mubarak ho, bhaiya," but instead of gratitude, the shopkeeper appeared offended. He told my friend not to use the word "mubarak" because it is Urdu, while "shaadi" is a Hindu term.

I attempted to ease the tension by explaining that it was a simple congratulation. During our conversation, a Muslim man who was also shopping intervened, stating, "Aisa kuch nahi hota bhai, mubarak hi to bola tha inhone," meaning it wasn't a problem. However, instead of calming the situation, the shopkeeper argued with him as well, saying something shocking: “Ek baat nahi hoti bhai, tumhare tawey pe roti ulti banti hai” (It’s not the same, you people even cook your bread on the wrong side of the pan).

I've known this shopkeeper for years; he has worked hard to build his business and reputation. Hearing those words from him shattered my perception of him and highlighted how deeply ingrained and irrational this divide has become.

I support my religion and community, but that does not mean I condone this kind of animosity. The current state of affairs is simply too extreme. India has made significant progress, and we should focus on continuing that journey rather than tearing each other apart over caste and religion. The past is behind us, and we must learn from it rather than allow it to dictate our future.

I understand that there is frustration on all sides, and it sometimes seems that one side is more often responsible for the disturbances (and we all know which one that is). However, responding with equal hostility and division does not resolve anything. Ultimately, it benefits neither Hindus nor Muslims. We must rise above these trivial conflicts if we genuinely want to see India thrive.