What's your favorite local place to mingle and find dates?

I (38m) deleted all the profiles and all the dating apps, can't do it anymore. I want to go live in the real world, but it's something I'm very out of touch with.

I have some singles events coming up that I'm going to, but if you guys are looking for a date where do you go?

I'm not really a bar / club scene kind of person, but all recommendations are welcome 😁