Men as gold diggers!

I am a 27F. I have a job and a biz on the side. I am pretty, curvy and all. Tell me why dating has shown me hell. I meet this guy he is too nice, ticks most of my boxes so we start dating. One week into dating, he randomly takes me to this electronics shop. He asks for iPods and prices then turns to me asking which one he should take. I thought he was asking for my opinion kumbe he wanted me to buy it for him! Damn, just like that without informing me prior. So I said Sina doo. But definitely a red flag. How is he so comfortable asking me to get him things in the first week. So second week rolls up and he texts me asking for money! I said Sina and kinda told him I have never been asked for money by guys more so mi na yeye we are still getting to know each other, he gets defensive and says he doesn't understand why I can't help my man when he needs me 😂 I have never run so faaaaaassssssstttt, like wtf!!