Must men spend to remain lovable??

I have a bad perspective for ladies who ask for basic things while in a relationship. For instance, i cant go for a first date with a lady who just asked for fare or cab money. I cant date a lady who expects me to pay their rent, or any bills. I cant date a lady who expects me to get multiple gifts for her every other time.

I feel these typa ladies see relationships as a transactional thing. A man has to do these things to remain loved by the lady. Madam, NO. You have to love me for who i am, and not based on how im able to please you. However, I find most ladies not liking my perspective. But i think im totally correct, because thats what love is in my book.

The worst thing, these ladies dont seem to contribute to the relationship other than being pretty and mechi. So my question is, must you keep a lady excited by doing material things for her to remain in a relationship? And to men, how do you feel when a lady is entitled that you have to provide to remain loved?

Its not as straight as I have put it, but deep down thats how most of youre relationships are working. Haha